Hmmmmm. To stretch or not to stretch.

[moonlite_tryst]

In most NC-17 slash fics I have read (that are not non-con) there is usually an element of preparation in the form of stretching the anus by hand or by spell, before the fucking begins.

After having watched 42 hours of QAF (US series 1 and 2) I have yet to see anything resembling that taking place, and I don't mean close shots of Brian with his fingers up Justin's arse. All fucking on the show (so far seen) consists of some fore play - kissing, sucking of nipples or cock, then condom on and straight in. Lube rarely puts in an appearance.

I can't help but wonder how painful it is to be penetrated without prior preparation.

Comments

[moonlite-tryst.livejournal.com]

Slow? He'd rather not go there at all, but I keep saying 'Hoe can I write about something I've never experienced? He usually counters with 'You write about magic, when have you done that? Damn! The last suggestion you made is doable though.

[piratesmile331.livejournal.com]

Is he worried that he is going to hurt you? Because most men would jump (no pun intended) at the chance to have buttsex.
Also, if you do end up convincing him to do it, he should either wear a condom, or get up right afterwards and go pee, because otherwise he can get a urinary tract infection from all those bacteria in your rectum.

[moonlite-tryst.livejournal.com]

He just doesn't get why I'd want to do it. He doesn't get my hobby either. When I'm droning on (and on) about some plot bunny I use the nicknames Harold and Maude. My daughter and I often joke that 'something' must have happened when he was in the navy.