Hmmmmm. To stretch or not to stretch.

[moonlite_tryst]

In most NC-17 slash fics I have read (that are not non-con) there is usually an element of preparation in the form of stretching the anus by hand or by spell, before the fucking begins.

After having watched 42 hours of QAF (US series 1 and 2) I have yet to see anything resembling that taking place, and I don't mean close shots of Brian with his fingers up Justin's arse. All fucking on the show (so far seen) consists of some fore play - kissing, sucking of nipples or cock, then condom on and straight in. Lube rarely puts in an appearance.

I can't help but wonder how painful it is to be penetrated without prior preparation.

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[auntbijou.livejournal.com]

You know, my husband and I did the dancing around the bush bit for two or three years after we were married, talking about it, but in the almost but not quite liking it sense, each of us trying to feel out how the other felt about it. He didn't want to if I didn't want to, and vice versa. It's funny now, but we were still learning each other and building trust. When we finally stopped the bush circling and just came right out and said it, well, it was pretty darned funny, and laughing about it was relaxing.

I guess what I'm saying is there has to be trust and reassurance on both sides. Lots of communication. And moving veeeerrrry slowly!

I envy you, having all five seasons. I suppose if I was totally desperate, I could borrow it from my brother-in-law, if he would part with it, but it would depend on which version... knowing Ger, he'd keep his mitts on the BBC version and send me the HBO version (which I wouldn't mind, too terribly). It can be awfully convenient having a gay brother-in-law, sometimes! (laughs merrily)

[moonlite-tryst.livejournal.com]

I only saw a couple of snippets of the Channel 4 original. I hadn't seen 'the light' at that point.